Thursday, December 31, 2009
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Happy Holidays-2010: Start Your Business
Hello Everyone,
Well 2009 is almost over! Thanks to that! I am happy because we faced several setbacks in America, bills being passed in the White House, money being spent, just way too many murder-suicide stories, etc., etc.
Let's bring in 2010 with one thought in mind: Do not take anything for granted.
If this is the year to start your own business, then don't wait for 2011 to roll around, do it now. Use your free resources like www.blogger.com, www.facebook.com, www.myspace.com, www.twitter.com, www.linkedin.com and several others.
Do you want to start a website design business, but don't know where to start? Or you simply need to brush up on your technology skills? Go to www.wc3schools.com to get started learning how to do this and all for FREE!
Do you want to start your own social networking site, but figure you don't have the money to get started? No worries, www.ning.com has a way for you to start your own social networking site connected to your interest of choice that can help you generate business. Check out www.mombloggers.com as an example.
Do you want to start learning all about this SEO (search engine optimization), internet marketing, and social media network marketing? Then that's when you need to head over to visit She Owns Media Group, LLC (formerly She Owns Publishing, LLC) at www.sheowns.com. I offer several plans for starting your own business, search engine optimization, marketing plans, and brand management.
Whether or not you are a single Mom, stay-at-home-Mom, career-minded woman looking to create her own destiny by way of entrepreneurship, or just need a side business to carry over some of those mounting holiday shopping bills, (I know, I saw people grabbing on the Target stores door at 6:59pm, when the sign clearly stated: closing at 7pm on Christmas Eve!!!), I can help you. Business start-up, marketing, communications and writing are my passions. I also love new technology as long as it is used for generating a business. Entertainment such as video games are great, too.
Contact me for more information.
This year was sort of rocky for me, too. I do plan to update the blog so that you the reader will receive a wealth of information that I hope will help you in some way. There is a myriad of information out there, people just don't know about it. This year, we will focus on starting a business, spotlight on those that have started their own business, and for those that just need plain ole motherhood tips! After all, balance is the key to both motherhood and business start-up.
So with this in mind, Happy Holidays to you and I look forward to serving everyone in the year 2010!
Best Wishes,
Jada Temple, Owner
She Owns Media Group, LLC
Simplicity Happens Everyday, so Own Success!
www.sheowns.com
Well 2009 is almost over! Thanks to that! I am happy because we faced several setbacks in America, bills being passed in the White House, money being spent, just way too many murder-suicide stories, etc., etc.
Let's bring in 2010 with one thought in mind: Do not take anything for granted.
If this is the year to start your own business, then don't wait for 2011 to roll around, do it now. Use your free resources like www.blogger.com, www.facebook.com, www.myspace.com, www.twitter.com, www.linkedin.com and several others.
Do you want to start a website design business, but don't know where to start? Or you simply need to brush up on your technology skills? Go to www.wc3schools.com to get started learning how to do this and all for FREE!
Do you want to start your own social networking site, but figure you don't have the money to get started? No worries, www.ning.com has a way for you to start your own social networking site connected to your interest of choice that can help you generate business. Check out www.mombloggers.com as an example.
Do you want to start learning all about this SEO (search engine optimization), internet marketing, and social media network marketing? Then that's when you need to head over to visit She Owns Media Group, LLC (formerly She Owns Publishing, LLC) at www.sheowns.com. I offer several plans for starting your own business, search engine optimization, marketing plans, and brand management.
Whether or not you are a single Mom, stay-at-home-Mom, career-minded woman looking to create her own destiny by way of entrepreneurship, or just need a side business to carry over some of those mounting holiday shopping bills, (I know, I saw people grabbing on the Target stores door at 6:59pm, when the sign clearly stated: closing at 7pm on Christmas Eve!!!), I can help you. Business start-up, marketing, communications and writing are my passions. I also love new technology as long as it is used for generating a business. Entertainment such as video games are great, too.
Contact me for more information.
This year was sort of rocky for me, too. I do plan to update the blog so that you the reader will receive a wealth of information that I hope will help you in some way. There is a myriad of information out there, people just don't know about it. This year, we will focus on starting a business, spotlight on those that have started their own business, and for those that just need plain ole motherhood tips! After all, balance is the key to both motherhood and business start-up.
So with this in mind, Happy Holidays to you and I look forward to serving everyone in the year 2010!
Best Wishes,
Jada Temple, Owner
She Owns Media Group, LLC
Simplicity Happens Everyday, so Own Success!
www.sheowns.com
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Sunday, October 18, 2009
FREE GIVEAWAY!
Good Sunday Morning!
I love to read and have several books that I whiz through especially on a Sunday while cooking my dinner. Winding down with a cup of tea or hot chocolate and reading an exciting thriller is what I like to do to prepare myself for the week. I want you to relax and do the same, so I am giving away three books!
Cold Pursuit by Carla Neggers
Four to Score by Janet Evanovich
Hollywood Stuff by Sharon Fiffer
The rules are to follow my blog, get two other women to follow my blog and send me an e-mail stating that you've done so. In the subject line put: THREE FOLLOWING SHEOGRAPHY, and I will enter your name in the contest. Those that are part of your group of followers will also get entered in the contest!
Winners will be announced on October 31, 2009. Hurry and spread the word! Get free books to give away for the holidays! Start early!
I love to read and have several books that I whiz through especially on a Sunday while cooking my dinner. Winding down with a cup of tea or hot chocolate and reading an exciting thriller is what I like to do to prepare myself for the week. I want you to relax and do the same, so I am giving away three books!
Cold Pursuit by Carla Neggers
Four to Score by Janet Evanovich
Hollywood Stuff by Sharon Fiffer
The rules are to follow my blog, get two other women to follow my blog and send me an e-mail stating that you've done so. In the subject line put: THREE FOLLOWING SHEOGRAPHY, and I will enter your name in the contest. Those that are part of your group of followers will also get entered in the contest!
Winners will be announced on October 31, 2009. Hurry and spread the word! Get free books to give away for the holidays! Start early!
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Curves Are In, so Love Your Life
A true story the author recollects about her late aunt who was very self-conscious about her image.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/997900/curves_are_in_so_love_your_life.html
Curves Are In, so Love Your LifeA true story the author recollects about her late aunt who was very self-conscious about her image.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/997900/curves_are_in_so_love_your_life.html
Saturday, October 3, 2009
Dating Tips-First Date Courtesy of Dateable.com
Ladies, I came across this article that provides great first date dating tips! Read on!
Thanks to www.dateable.com
First Date Tips
By Jennifer Klein, Dateable.com
Dating can be tough and first dates can be painful. So what are you to do? Here is a list of dating tips to start the year out right!
· Meet your date out and drive yourself. If you want to bail out early, you won't be trapped. Also, when you have your own car. If things work out, you won't have any worries about inviting your date in or not. This helps protect you from your own impulses, because what's worse then "will he respect me in the morning?" is "How much will I hate myself when I wake up?". Also when you have your own car, no need to worry about safety, your date does not know where you live. This protects you from a date turned bad turning in to a stalking nightmare.
· Keep the date simple. You're nervous enough without making a big show, plus you don't want to lock yourself in to an evening you won't enjoy.
· Men, end the date first. You will make yourself stand out.
· Women, don't wear anything low cut or short. It sounds like an old cliché but your first date knows very little about the woman you are. He will take you at face value and you don't want to give the wrong impression.
A friend of mine went out for dinner on a blind date. She is a very conservative women, who really likes to take her time in relationships. All of us who know her know this about her. Her date didn't. She went out on the date wearing a sexy low cut cocktail dress. They went to dinner, had a wonderful evening, and when he walked her to her door, he pounced on her! She was of course surprised and upset, but her date didn't know her, he just took her at face value.
· Wear clothing that you are comfortable and confident in. First dates are uncomfortable enough without a tight belt biting you around the waist.
· Men, be specific about where you are going. This will make the date more comfortable, and will prevent her from wearing a cocktail dress when you are taking her bowling.
· Ask about your date. Each of us knows we are the most interesting subject :) But the most interesting conversationalists are people who ask about others. Great light topics are work, hobbies, sports, kids (if they have any). If you are really stuck for topics to talk about, and questions to ask, on the Dateable.com site, in our advice corner, under romance, single life, we have a great article by Penelope Frohart author of "The Book of Fabulous Questions" called "What do I talk about on a date?". She offers some great advice. http://dateable.com/advicecorner/
· Easy on the perfume. You want to knock his socks off, but you don't want to knock him out!
· Don't forget to use mouthwash before you go out.
· Don't order sloppy food. If you are not paying for what you order, try to stay in the middle of the menu.
· Keep the conversation light! Don't talk or ask about old boyfriends, girlfriends, or ex-spouse. This is a first date, not a therapy session.
· Find out about your dates eating habits before you plan the evening. Make sure you choose a place where they will be able to find something to eat.
· Be attentive! There is nothing worse then a date peering over your shoulder making you feel as if they are looking for something better.
· If you are not paying be considerate of what you order. Try to stay in the middle of the menu.
· And last, but not least, have fun and be yourself!
© Dateable.com LLC 2000
Dateable.com is an exciting online community for singles, couples and romance lovers. Dateable.com has romantic resources, advice, poetry, greeting cards, and more. Dateable.com also features specialty matchmaking services. Whether you are looking for a soulmate or a playmate, visit http://dateable.com
Thanks to www.dateable.com
First Date Tips
By Jennifer Klein, Dateable.com
Dating can be tough and first dates can be painful. So what are you to do? Here is a list of dating tips to start the year out right!
· Meet your date out and drive yourself. If you want to bail out early, you won't be trapped. Also, when you have your own car. If things work out, you won't have any worries about inviting your date in or not. This helps protect you from your own impulses, because what's worse then "will he respect me in the morning?" is "How much will I hate myself when I wake up?". Also when you have your own car, no need to worry about safety, your date does not know where you live. This protects you from a date turned bad turning in to a stalking nightmare.
· Keep the date simple. You're nervous enough without making a big show, plus you don't want to lock yourself in to an evening you won't enjoy.
· Men, end the date first. You will make yourself stand out.
· Women, don't wear anything low cut or short. It sounds like an old cliché but your first date knows very little about the woman you are. He will take you at face value and you don't want to give the wrong impression.
A friend of mine went out for dinner on a blind date. She is a very conservative women, who really likes to take her time in relationships. All of us who know her know this about her. Her date didn't. She went out on the date wearing a sexy low cut cocktail dress. They went to dinner, had a wonderful evening, and when he walked her to her door, he pounced on her! She was of course surprised and upset, but her date didn't know her, he just took her at face value.
· Wear clothing that you are comfortable and confident in. First dates are uncomfortable enough without a tight belt biting you around the waist.
· Men, be specific about where you are going. This will make the date more comfortable, and will prevent her from wearing a cocktail dress when you are taking her bowling.
· Ask about your date. Each of us knows we are the most interesting subject :) But the most interesting conversationalists are people who ask about others. Great light topics are work, hobbies, sports, kids (if they have any). If you are really stuck for topics to talk about, and questions to ask, on the Dateable.com site, in our advice corner, under romance, single life, we have a great article by Penelope Frohart author of "The Book of Fabulous Questions" called "What do I talk about on a date?". She offers some great advice. http://dateable.com/advicecorner/
· Easy on the perfume. You want to knock his socks off, but you don't want to knock him out!
· Don't forget to use mouthwash before you go out.
· Don't order sloppy food. If you are not paying for what you order, try to stay in the middle of the menu.
· Keep the conversation light! Don't talk or ask about old boyfriends, girlfriends, or ex-spouse. This is a first date, not a therapy session.
· Find out about your dates eating habits before you plan the evening. Make sure you choose a place where they will be able to find something to eat.
· Be attentive! There is nothing worse then a date peering over your shoulder making you feel as if they are looking for something better.
· If you are not paying be considerate of what you order. Try to stay in the middle of the menu.
· And last, but not least, have fun and be yourself!
© Dateable.com LLC 2000
Dateable.com is an exciting online community for singles, couples and romance lovers. Dateable.com has romantic resources, advice, poetry, greeting cards, and more. Dateable.com also features specialty matchmaking services. Whether you are looking for a soulmate or a playmate, visit http://dateable.com
Friday, October 2, 2009
Monday, September 14, 2009
Spotlight on Single Mother Business Owner-Cathy Beggan
A single mother of three children, Cathy Beggan was tired of waking up feeling groggy. She was stressed, she needed more sleep and yearned for time to rest without feeling overly tired. Her kids and job was demanding and after drinking one too many cups of coffee throughout the day, she knew she needed to change. Not only for herself, but for others that were in her situation.
In comes the concept of a tablet that had a time-release coating. The Wake Up On Time tablet makes you feel refreshed first thing in the morning. The Wake Up On Time tablet, which enables you to take this product BEFORE you go to sleep without it keeping you awake, has ingredients that slowly start to disperse throughout the body as you sleep. An all natural remedy that Cathy put her heart and soul into creating, is an essential for mothers who are constantly on the go and do not want to feel tired all the time.
I plan to purchase the Wake Up On Time tablet for the simple fact of me needing more energy to tackle all of my motherly duties. Kids, work, dreams, aspirations, staying fit, etc., etc. I advise you to read Cathy Beggan's story about herself and her product. She stresses the importance of product recognition, marketing and just overall stepping out on faith and not taking NO for an answer.
Single moms: It can be done! I am impressed with Cathy's story and am thankful for people like her. She is truly an inspiration to us all. Support her and her products by visiting: www.wakeupontime.com
Sources: www.wakeupontime.com, www.hybridmom.com
In comes the concept of a tablet that had a time-release coating. The Wake Up On Time tablet makes you feel refreshed first thing in the morning. The Wake Up On Time tablet, which enables you to take this product BEFORE you go to sleep without it keeping you awake, has ingredients that slowly start to disperse throughout the body as you sleep. An all natural remedy that Cathy put her heart and soul into creating, is an essential for mothers who are constantly on the go and do not want to feel tired all the time.
I plan to purchase the Wake Up On Time tablet for the simple fact of me needing more energy to tackle all of my motherly duties. Kids, work, dreams, aspirations, staying fit, etc., etc. I advise you to read Cathy Beggan's story about herself and her product. She stresses the importance of product recognition, marketing and just overall stepping out on faith and not taking NO for an answer.
Single moms: It can be done! I am impressed with Cathy's story and am thankful for people like her. She is truly an inspiration to us all. Support her and her products by visiting: www.wakeupontime.com
Sources: www.wakeupontime.com, www.hybridmom.com
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
5 financial basics for single parents
Hello Single Mothers Who Work So Hard!
These are five financial basics for single parents thanks to Money Central msn.com.
http://moneycentral.msn.com/content/Savinganddebt/Learntobudget/P150624.asp
These are five financial basics for single parents thanks to Money Central msn.com.
http://moneycentral.msn.com/content/Savinganddebt/Learntobudget/P150624.asp
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
Inspirational Guide for Young Mothers With a Dream
Source: www.blackpr.com, www.blacknews.com
Philadelphia, PA (BlackNews.com) - FCS Books, a division of Family Care Solutions (FCS)--a nonprofit organization that promotes economic independence, educational awareness and social responsibility to improve the quality of life for families with children--releases its first book this fall to empower, inspire and educate Moms. Professor, May I Bring My Baby to Class? is a resource and guide to help young mothers navigate the obstacles blocking their dreams to pursue higher education.
Founder of Family Care Solutions and Author Sherrill W. Mosee encourages young mothers to take control of their destiny by completing their education. She guides them through the process and shows why higher education is important for both moms and their children. Professor, May I Bring My Baby to Class? includes compelling stories written by mothers who accepted the challenge of going to college while caring for their children, in spite of the odds stacked against them.
Meet Melissa, a young mother of four who left a troubled street life to return to school to make a better life for her family. Today, a student at the University of California at Berkley, Melissa now realizes the unlimited possibilities that lay at her feet with a college education. "After getting through my first semester, I realized that school wasn't that bad, and I could do it...This is dope homie; I'm sold," she says.
Professor, May I Bring My Baby to Class? also includes information about colleges and universities that offer on-campus child care, housing for women with children, financial aid, and other support services for student-parents plus tips and resources to help readers on their journey to graduation day. They will also be able to chronicle their own story, challenges, triumphs and dreams in a handy journal.
Professor, May I Bring My Baby to Class? would be a great inspirational gift and resource to any Mom with a dream to pursue higher education. For more information about the book or how to pre-order it, visit www.fcsbooks.com Family Care Solutions, a nonprofit organization that promotes economic independence, educational awareness and social responsibility to improve the quality of life for families with children, is the only community-based agency in Philadelphia which offers child care assistance to help eliminate the financial barrier of the high cost of child care for student-parents in higher education.
Philadelphia, PA (BlackNews.com) - FCS Books, a division of Family Care Solutions (FCS)--a nonprofit organization that promotes economic independence, educational awareness and social responsibility to improve the quality of life for families with children--releases its first book this fall to empower, inspire and educate Moms. Professor, May I Bring My Baby to Class? is a resource and guide to help young mothers navigate the obstacles blocking their dreams to pursue higher education.
Founder of Family Care Solutions and Author Sherrill W. Mosee encourages young mothers to take control of their destiny by completing their education. She guides them through the process and shows why higher education is important for both moms and their children. Professor, May I Bring My Baby to Class? includes compelling stories written by mothers who accepted the challenge of going to college while caring for their children, in spite of the odds stacked against them.
Meet Melissa, a young mother of four who left a troubled street life to return to school to make a better life for her family. Today, a student at the University of California at Berkley, Melissa now realizes the unlimited possibilities that lay at her feet with a college education. "After getting through my first semester, I realized that school wasn't that bad, and I could do it...This is dope homie; I'm sold," she says.
Professor, May I Bring My Baby to Class? also includes information about colleges and universities that offer on-campus child care, housing for women with children, financial aid, and other support services for student-parents plus tips and resources to help readers on their journey to graduation day. They will also be able to chronicle their own story, challenges, triumphs and dreams in a handy journal.
Professor, May I Bring My Baby to Class? would be a great inspirational gift and resource to any Mom with a dream to pursue higher education. For more information about the book or how to pre-order it, visit www.fcsbooks.com Family Care Solutions, a nonprofit organization that promotes economic independence, educational awareness and social responsibility to improve the quality of life for families with children, is the only community-based agency in Philadelphia which offers child care assistance to help eliminate the financial barrier of the high cost of child care for student-parents in higher education.
College is an option when you have children...It may be harder, but it can be done! I am living proof! (thanks to www.strayer.edu)
Monday, August 10, 2009
Monday, August 3, 2009
Free Book-Act NOW!
Download Colum McCann's irresistible new novel, Let the Great World Spin for free until 10:59 a.m. ET Wednesday August 5, 2009. We're offering this book as a free download for Oprah.com members. If you already are an Oprah.com member, click on the link below to log in and you'll be redirected to download the book. If you are not a member, click on the link below and you will be prompted to become a member. It's free!
http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahsbookclub/readinglists/pkgsummerreading/200907-omag-book-download-2
Synopsis: About the Book: In the dawning light of a late-summer morning, the people of lower Manhattan stand hushed, staring up in disbelief at the Twin Towers. It is August 1974, and a mysterious tightrope walker is running, dancing, leaping between the towers, suspended a quarter mile above the ground. In the streets below, a slew of ordinary lives become extraordinary in bestselling novelist Colum McCann’s stunningly intricate portrait of a city and its people.Let the Great World Spin is the critically acclaimed author’s most ambitious novel yet: a dazzlingly rich vision of the pain, loveliness, mystery, and promise of New York City in the 1970s.Corrigan, a radical young Irish monk, struggles with his own demons as he lives among the prostitutes in the middle of the burning Bronx. A group of mothers gather in a Park Avenue apartment to mourn their sons who died in Vietnam, only to discover just how much divides them even in grief. A young artist finds herself at the scene of a hit-and-run that sends her own life careening sideways. Tillie, a thirty-eight-year-old grandmother, turns tricks alongside her teenage daughter, determined not only to take care of her family but to prove her own worth.Elegantly weaving together these and other seemingly disparate lives, McCann’s powerful allegory comes alive in the unforgettable voices of the city’s people, unexpectedly drawn together by hope, beauty, and the “artistic crime of the century.” A sweeping and radical social novel, Let the Great World Spin captures the spirit of America in a time of transition, extraordinary promise, and, in hindsight, heartbreaking innocence. Hailed as a “fiercely original talent” (San Francisco Chronicle ), award-winning novelist McCann has delivered a triumphantly American masterpiece that awakens in us a sense of what the novel can achieve, confront, and even heal.
I love to read, don't you? Especially if it is free! Thanks to Oprah's book club!
Source: Oprah's Book club: www.oprah.com
http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahsbookclub/readinglists/pkgsummerreading/200907-omag-book-download-2
Synopsis: About the Book: In the dawning light of a late-summer morning, the people of lower Manhattan stand hushed, staring up in disbelief at the Twin Towers. It is August 1974, and a mysterious tightrope walker is running, dancing, leaping between the towers, suspended a quarter mile above the ground. In the streets below, a slew of ordinary lives become extraordinary in bestselling novelist Colum McCann’s stunningly intricate portrait of a city and its people.Let the Great World Spin is the critically acclaimed author’s most ambitious novel yet: a dazzlingly rich vision of the pain, loveliness, mystery, and promise of New York City in the 1970s.Corrigan, a radical young Irish monk, struggles with his own demons as he lives among the prostitutes in the middle of the burning Bronx. A group of mothers gather in a Park Avenue apartment to mourn their sons who died in Vietnam, only to discover just how much divides them even in grief. A young artist finds herself at the scene of a hit-and-run that sends her own life careening sideways. Tillie, a thirty-eight-year-old grandmother, turns tricks alongside her teenage daughter, determined not only to take care of her family but to prove her own worth.Elegantly weaving together these and other seemingly disparate lives, McCann’s powerful allegory comes alive in the unforgettable voices of the city’s people, unexpectedly drawn together by hope, beauty, and the “artistic crime of the century.” A sweeping and radical social novel, Let the Great World Spin captures the spirit of America in a time of transition, extraordinary promise, and, in hindsight, heartbreaking innocence. Hailed as a “fiercely original talent” (San Francisco Chronicle ), award-winning novelist McCann has delivered a triumphantly American masterpiece that awakens in us a sense of what the novel can achieve, confront, and even heal.
I love to read, don't you? Especially if it is free! Thanks to Oprah's book club!
Source: Oprah's Book club: www.oprah.com
Monday, July 13, 2009
Teaching Children About Death
The death of Michael Jackson really blew me away. I was trying to come home a couple of days after the awful train wreck in DC which killed nine people. It was awful and I was trying to get used to taking another route home.
I have a cell phone that does not work underground. So when my train finally pulled into the train stations that are outside, my phone rang. It was my ten-year old son.
He was crying a little. I asked him what is wrong. He said, "Mom, you didn't hear? Michael Jackson died!"
I stopped right in my tracks and was wondering why everyone on the platform was eagerly texting on their Blackberries or I-phones. It hit me, "Nah, another rumor, they're always messing with Michael."
So that's what I told him, "No, it's a rumor." And I told him to put my friend on the phone. When he got on the phone he said, "Jada, it's true, Michael Jackson died of a heart attack." Stunned, I told him I was on my way, but I worried what both of my sons were hearing on the tube since I knew how much they loved watching Michael Jackson on TV. Not the way the awful tabloids always presented him.
Trying to get over the shock, it was hard not to. Splattered all over the news, Michael Jackson's death was a tidal wave riding throughout the entire world just like his beloved music. I was hurt, but my other son was even more hurt.
With the creation of the Internet and clever sites like youtube, my son has always viewed at least one Michael Jackson video per day. Me, too...
The day Michael Jackson died, my son was watching Beat It! Then to hear on the news an hour later that he was dead, was unreal to my kids. So I can only imagine how Michael's kids were feeling.
I know how they felt, because at age 11, I lost my mother. I didn't understand why, couldn't understand and really didn't want to. In my little world, she was the only person that ever loved me. I can only imagine Michael's kids felt the same way.
When my mother died, no one sat me down and really explained the death of my mother. All I knew was that I had to wear a white dress at my mother's funeral, some Down South tradition. I wondered why my mother's face was cold? Was she going to wake up? Why didn't she at least call me to say goodbye, I'm leaving for a while...And on and on and on...
When I heard Jermaine Jackson's interview with Matt Lauer, he said something that struck out at me. Heavily. He said they took the children to see their father because it would help them understand better. I agree with him. Had my family taken me to see my mother beforehand, I don't think I would have gone through several years of unanswered questions later on in my adult life.
When I saw Paris Jackson outpour her heart in front of her father's casket, I cried right along with her. I knew what she was feeling. But I knew how brave she was. When I kissed my own mother goodbye, no one gave me the chance to say anything about her.
I explained the details to my sons about death. No I don't know exactly where we go when we die, but I do believe in heaven because I am a Christian. It is hard to fathom what the Bible teaches about heaven, because no one can come back and tell of its greatness.
I overheard someone criticize Michael Jackson stating, "Michael sold his soul to the devil." I beg to differ! But I tried not to get caught up in that madness. What matters is that three children have lost their father, which children do go through everyday, but this was too much. When I heard Paris say, "My father..." She didn't say, "My pop icon father..." She knew what he meant to her in her heart.
Age 11 is a critical age to lose a parent. Tween years are difficult. Heck, all of the child's years are difficult as they try to find a place in the world. It is important that we teach our children about fear, death, whatever form of heaven you believe in as well as the intracacies of this world. We cannot sugarcoat and nursery rhyme everything, because it is not possible.
I know Michael was a good father. Whether or not he had them or not, so what? They were his children. They have his tendencies. Good hearted and kind. I don't care what the tabloids or even some news stations are saying, that's hogwash.
I hope the children will be able to maintain normal lives, but this is only wishful thinking. Let us all teach our children that forever on earth is not promised, but do so in a way that they will understand.
For more information, please visit: http://www.trauma-pages.com/s/perrylos.php, http://www.missfoundation.org/kids/index.html, www.willmarcenter.org/
For more of Michael's legacy, please visit: http://healtheworld.us/members/htwf
His music: www.michaeljackson.com and here: http://www.allmichaeljackson.com/index.html and here: http://community.guinnessworldrecords.com/_Michael-Jackson-dies-at-50/blog/407707/7691.html
I have a cell phone that does not work underground. So when my train finally pulled into the train stations that are outside, my phone rang. It was my ten-year old son.
He was crying a little. I asked him what is wrong. He said, "Mom, you didn't hear? Michael Jackson died!"
I stopped right in my tracks and was wondering why everyone on the platform was eagerly texting on their Blackberries or I-phones. It hit me, "Nah, another rumor, they're always messing with Michael."
So that's what I told him, "No, it's a rumor." And I told him to put my friend on the phone. When he got on the phone he said, "Jada, it's true, Michael Jackson died of a heart attack." Stunned, I told him I was on my way, but I worried what both of my sons were hearing on the tube since I knew how much they loved watching Michael Jackson on TV. Not the way the awful tabloids always presented him.
Trying to get over the shock, it was hard not to. Splattered all over the news, Michael Jackson's death was a tidal wave riding throughout the entire world just like his beloved music. I was hurt, but my other son was even more hurt.
With the creation of the Internet and clever sites like youtube, my son has always viewed at least one Michael Jackson video per day. Me, too...
The day Michael Jackson died, my son was watching Beat It! Then to hear on the news an hour later that he was dead, was unreal to my kids. So I can only imagine how Michael's kids were feeling.
I know how they felt, because at age 11, I lost my mother. I didn't understand why, couldn't understand and really didn't want to. In my little world, she was the only person that ever loved me. I can only imagine Michael's kids felt the same way.
When my mother died, no one sat me down and really explained the death of my mother. All I knew was that I had to wear a white dress at my mother's funeral, some Down South tradition. I wondered why my mother's face was cold? Was she going to wake up? Why didn't she at least call me to say goodbye, I'm leaving for a while...And on and on and on...
When I heard Jermaine Jackson's interview with Matt Lauer, he said something that struck out at me. Heavily. He said they took the children to see their father because it would help them understand better. I agree with him. Had my family taken me to see my mother beforehand, I don't think I would have gone through several years of unanswered questions later on in my adult life.
When I saw Paris Jackson outpour her heart in front of her father's casket, I cried right along with her. I knew what she was feeling. But I knew how brave she was. When I kissed my own mother goodbye, no one gave me the chance to say anything about her.
I explained the details to my sons about death. No I don't know exactly where we go when we die, but I do believe in heaven because I am a Christian. It is hard to fathom what the Bible teaches about heaven, because no one can come back and tell of its greatness.
I overheard someone criticize Michael Jackson stating, "Michael sold his soul to the devil." I beg to differ! But I tried not to get caught up in that madness. What matters is that three children have lost their father, which children do go through everyday, but this was too much. When I heard Paris say, "My father..." She didn't say, "My pop icon father..." She knew what he meant to her in her heart.
Age 11 is a critical age to lose a parent. Tween years are difficult. Heck, all of the child's years are difficult as they try to find a place in the world. It is important that we teach our children about fear, death, whatever form of heaven you believe in as well as the intracacies of this world. We cannot sugarcoat and nursery rhyme everything, because it is not possible.
I know Michael was a good father. Whether or not he had them or not, so what? They were his children. They have his tendencies. Good hearted and kind. I don't care what the tabloids or even some news stations are saying, that's hogwash.
I hope the children will be able to maintain normal lives, but this is only wishful thinking. Let us all teach our children that forever on earth is not promised, but do so in a way that they will understand.
For more information, please visit: http://www.trauma-pages.com/s/perrylos.php, http://www.missfoundation.org/kids/index.html, www.willmarcenter.org/
For more of Michael's legacy, please visit: http://healtheworld.us/members/htwf
His music: www.michaeljackson.com and here: http://www.allmichaeljackson.com/index.html and here: http://community.guinnessworldrecords.com/_Michael-Jackson-dies-at-50/blog/407707/7691.html
Saturday, June 13, 2009
Adoption and the Single Mother
When I heard that pop star Madonna was finally granted an adoption to an adorable 4-year-old girl named Chifundo “Mercy” James, I was happy for her. Controversy has swirled around the pop star from other South African would be adopters citing, "Madonna is getting privilege to adopt because she is rich."
I was stunned at those comments. I mean, if Mercy's father, who claims he has not seen the child since the mother died (she was a teenage mother by the way), and really wanted to care for the child, wouldn't he have at least made an attempt to get Mercy? Why wait until Madonna wants to adopt her? He claims that Mercy's maternal side blocked him from adopting her...
Well anyway, courts in South Africa ruled and Mercy will be going home to live with Madonna and the rest of her family in NYC, or wherever she wants to.
Which is the point of this posting...
There are some women who cannot have children and adoption is the choice for them. I have no problem with that as long as one can take care of a child. Single Mothers By Choice an organization fully committed to those that want to care for a child by choice. They stake their claim here:
"A single mother by choice is a woman who decided to have or adopt a child, knowing she would be her child's sole parent, at least at the outset. Typically, we are career women in our thirties and forties. The ticking of our biological clocks has made us face the fact that we could no longer wait for marriage before starting our families. Some of us went to a doctor for donor insemination or adopted in the United States or abroad. Others accidentally became pregnant and discovered we were thrilled."
I am thrilled, too. Just like it doesn't bother me if a gay or lesbian couple wants to adopt a child. As long as they can provide for the child, why not? Instilling good values to have that child grow up in a loving family is all that matters.
Why all the controversy over adopting by single mothers? Because according to the US Census Bureau, there are approximately 13.6 million single mothers raising children alone. That counts for at least 21.2 million children being raised without a father. So yes, as a single person thinking about adoption, you need money...
So I don't knock Madonna for adopting children, she is filthy rich and can do it. I don't knock Oprah who opened a school in South Africa for impoverished girls, calling them her "daughters", and I daggone sure do not knock the gay and lesbian community to reach out and adopt children. After a non-adopted child turns 18, they are on their own.
So no, I don't knock this at all. Go 'head Madonna!
I was stunned at those comments. I mean, if Mercy's father, who claims he has not seen the child since the mother died (she was a teenage mother by the way), and really wanted to care for the child, wouldn't he have at least made an attempt to get Mercy? Why wait until Madonna wants to adopt her? He claims that Mercy's maternal side blocked him from adopting her...
Well anyway, courts in South Africa ruled and Mercy will be going home to live with Madonna and the rest of her family in NYC, or wherever she wants to.
Which is the point of this posting...
There are some women who cannot have children and adoption is the choice for them. I have no problem with that as long as one can take care of a child. Single Mothers By Choice an organization fully committed to those that want to care for a child by choice. They stake their claim here:
"A single mother by choice is a woman who decided to have or adopt a child, knowing she would be her child's sole parent, at least at the outset. Typically, we are career women in our thirties and forties. The ticking of our biological clocks has made us face the fact that we could no longer wait for marriage before starting our families. Some of us went to a doctor for donor insemination or adopted in the United States or abroad. Others accidentally became pregnant and discovered we were thrilled."
I am thrilled, too. Just like it doesn't bother me if a gay or lesbian couple wants to adopt a child. As long as they can provide for the child, why not? Instilling good values to have that child grow up in a loving family is all that matters.
Why all the controversy over adopting by single mothers? Because according to the US Census Bureau, there are approximately 13.6 million single mothers raising children alone. That counts for at least 21.2 million children being raised without a father. So yes, as a single person thinking about adoption, you need money...
So I don't knock Madonna for adopting children, she is filthy rich and can do it. I don't knock Oprah who opened a school in South Africa for impoverished girls, calling them her "daughters", and I daggone sure do not knock the gay and lesbian community to reach out and adopt children. After a non-adopted child turns 18, they are on their own.
So no, I don't knock this at all. Go 'head Madonna!
But if you're a single woman and want to adopt because of not being able to conceive, or you just want to adopt versus conceive, do know the steps are plenty. It can be done though. Keep a straight and narrow record, work history and rental and/or homeownership history. And you need money. For more information on adopting, visit, www.adopting.org.
Good Luck!
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Scholarships for Moms-Deadline June 15th
Hurry!!! If you want to go back to school, there is a contest for a scholarship for mothers. Always wanting to look out for my single mother friends, please visit: http://www.scholarships4moms.net. You owe it to yourself to go back to school or save the money to send your child to school! Going back to school will make you more marketable, stronger and powerful! I am happy to have completed my degree online and you can do the same. Check it out: http://www.scholarships4moms.net and do not forget to start your financial aid package here: http://www.fafsa.gov. This is the Federal Student Aid website where you can apply for pell grants, student loans and other grants. Let me know how you're doing or if you need help with the process!
Good Luck!
Good Luck!
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Make some money writing online-Part 1
I know several single mothers who work two jobs. Heck, I know some that work three jobs. I don't know how we do it. I tried working a second job one time, but with school still winding down, I just couldn't find the energy to do this.
That's where technology steps in. There are several ways for the single mother population to make money while at home. It takes time yes, but if you stick with it, results will follow.
1) Blogging-My own blog is a sample for beginners. Utilize blogger.com to start your own blog about a topic (s) you love. Begin to monetize your blog by adding ads and links to affiliated products that you sell outside of your blog. Visit Problogger.net for more information. Set up an account at google adsense.
2) Write for associatedcontent.com. They are my favorite! I have made friends on here, can post my articles, research papers and reviews that are at least 500 words. I have made as much as $4-10 per article. Not bad for pumping out a few articles in a couple of weeks, gaining some extra cash for something that had to get pushed to the back burner (movies, shoes, etc.)
3) One that I have not explored yet is families.com This is a site that allows you to write about family topics and with us being single mothers, there is lots to blog about since we do just about everything.
I will be conducting these posts into a series this month, so stay tuned. Don't fret over the summer, (recession) and get started. There's something for everyone on the net to make money!
That's where technology steps in. There are several ways for the single mother population to make money while at home. It takes time yes, but if you stick with it, results will follow.
1) Blogging-My own blog is a sample for beginners. Utilize blogger.com to start your own blog about a topic (s) you love. Begin to monetize your blog by adding ads and links to affiliated products that you sell outside of your blog. Visit Problogger.net for more information. Set up an account at google adsense.
2) Write for associatedcontent.com. They are my favorite! I have made friends on here, can post my articles, research papers and reviews that are at least 500 words. I have made as much as $4-10 per article. Not bad for pumping out a few articles in a couple of weeks, gaining some extra cash for something that had to get pushed to the back burner (movies, shoes, etc.)
3) One that I have not explored yet is families.com This is a site that allows you to write about family topics and with us being single mothers, there is lots to blog about since we do just about everything.
I will be conducting these posts into a series this month, so stay tuned. Don't fret over the summer, (recession) and get started. There's something for everyone on the net to make money!
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
School is...
Kicking my behind. I have been attending college online for a while now and these are my last two classes. It is not easy, but it can be done. I have learned how to schedule my time for studying and taking exams, thus leaving me with less time to blog. But I promise to be back and blogging daily.
In the meantime, if you are a single mom considering going back to school, I would recommend my school, Strayer University. They have excellent business and information technology programs and have recently started a criminal justice program. If you work for the federal government, like most Washingtonians do, you can upgrade your skills by taking contract specialist courses.
There are several other online programs that I am considering for my Master's degree. National University is my first choice. Their classes start monthly and you can obtain your degree strictly online with low residency since they are located in California. Another school I would consider attending is the University of Maryland University College. They have excellent programs and assist with scholarships and loans according to your financial need.
Tips for choosing an online school is to make sure they are accredited. Make sure the costs are economical versus your monthly budget. Ask yourself, is it worth going to a community college first and pay a babysitter at night versus the extra fees it costs to take convenient classes from your computer? Although, nowadays, even community colleges are offering courses online.
Be creative! If you want to become a nurse, take some science courses online and shoot for the clinicals in house. If you've worked ten years in security, you may be eligible for work-life experience and can knock out at least four courses in criminal justice. You can also take CLEP courses (College Level Examination Program), where basic courses such as English, Math, Sociology, Psychology, Humanities and a host of others can be taken via an exam for a fee. Are you in the military? Then DANTES is the choice for you. DANTES is the Defense Activity for Non-Traditional Education Support. For military personnel and their families, one can take correspondence courses and obtain college credit to count towards your degree.
As a single mom, there are more choices to go back to school and finish than there was maybe ten to fifteen years ago. Next I will post information about financing your education.
In the meantime, if you are a single mom considering going back to school, I would recommend my school, Strayer University. They have excellent business and information technology programs and have recently started a criminal justice program. If you work for the federal government, like most Washingtonians do, you can upgrade your skills by taking contract specialist courses.
There are several other online programs that I am considering for my Master's degree. National University is my first choice. Their classes start monthly and you can obtain your degree strictly online with low residency since they are located in California. Another school I would consider attending is the University of Maryland University College. They have excellent programs and assist with scholarships and loans according to your financial need.
Tips for choosing an online school is to make sure they are accredited. Make sure the costs are economical versus your monthly budget. Ask yourself, is it worth going to a community college first and pay a babysitter at night versus the extra fees it costs to take convenient classes from your computer? Although, nowadays, even community colleges are offering courses online.
Be creative! If you want to become a nurse, take some science courses online and shoot for the clinicals in house. If you've worked ten years in security, you may be eligible for work-life experience and can knock out at least four courses in criminal justice. You can also take CLEP courses (College Level Examination Program), where basic courses such as English, Math, Sociology, Psychology, Humanities and a host of others can be taken via an exam for a fee. Are you in the military? Then DANTES is the choice for you. DANTES is the Defense Activity for Non-Traditional Education Support. For military personnel and their families, one can take correspondence courses and obtain college credit to count towards your degree.
As a single mom, there are more choices to go back to school and finish than there was maybe ten to fifteen years ago. Next I will post information about financing your education.
Saturday, May 9, 2009
Freebies for Mother's Day!
Happy Mother's Day!
I wanted to post a few Mother's Day freebies. Origins store is offering free mini-facials from May 11th until May 31st. Check their site for appointment scheduling and locations.
Do you need some uplifting and transformation in your life? I came across a free downloadable e-book entitled, The Mother's Guide to Self-Renewal: How to Reclaim, Rejuvenate and Re-Balance Your Life by Renee Peterson Trudeau. You can download it as a Mother's Day treat and the author is offering a free Personal Renewal Group. Check it out!
Buy yourself some flowers, take a hot bath, or read a book! I know I am... Reading that is!
I wanted to post a few Mother's Day freebies. Origins store is offering free mini-facials from May 11th until May 31st. Check their site for appointment scheduling and locations.
Do you need some uplifting and transformation in your life? I came across a free downloadable e-book entitled, The Mother's Guide to Self-Renewal: How to Reclaim, Rejuvenate and Re-Balance Your Life by Renee Peterson Trudeau. You can download it as a Mother's Day treat and the author is offering a free Personal Renewal Group. Check it out!
Buy yourself some flowers, take a hot bath, or read a book! I know I am... Reading that is!
Kids who Volunteer
Today I came across a young man's story here. 11 year-old Zach Bonner, from Tampa, FL started his own non-profit organization called the Little Red Wagon Foundation. His mission is to walk from Atlanta to DC and raise money for homeless kids across America. He has a passion for helping people, using his trademark red wagon to hold and distribute food items and bottled water when Hurricane Charley hit FL in 2004.
With technology driving people to stay in tune to their social networking sites, video games and fancy cell phones, we (I include myself here) could be steering away from volunteering. Volunteering is a good way to rebuild your resume and teach your children values. And although us single mothers have limited time to volunteer, there are ways to make time to do a good deed. Besides, our children need to see the importance of helping others. Check out sites such as www.dosomething.org and www.volunteermatch.org.
Kudos to Zach! I am rooting for you and will make a pledge to your mission. Hopefully I will see you in DC!
With technology driving people to stay in tune to their social networking sites, video games and fancy cell phones, we (I include myself here) could be steering away from volunteering. Volunteering is a good way to rebuild your resume and teach your children values. And although us single mothers have limited time to volunteer, there are ways to make time to do a good deed. Besides, our children need to see the importance of helping others. Check out sites such as www.dosomething.org and www.volunteermatch.org.
Kudos to Zach! I am rooting for you and will make a pledge to your mission. Hopefully I will see you in DC!
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Single Moms Listen Up!
Niecy Nash, co-host of the Style Network's TV Show, "Clean House" shares her views on being a divorcee in Essence magazine. It is hard to get into a relationship when you have children, but we do have options. We as single mothers have feelings, but we must also be ready. Ladies, do not jump into a relationship just because you feel that you need a daddy for your kids, or you're tired of paying all of the bills by yourself. It is just not going to work that way. Niecy Nash, lays it out plainly when she says, "I Need a GAM!" Read on to find out the meaning behind the acronym.
http://www.essence.com/news_entertainment/entertainment/articles/niecy_nash_talks_dating_and_being_a_single_mom?xid=050709-ENews-Thursday-neiceynash-mainstory-txtlink1
PS-And if you haven't already read this book, "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy and Committment" by Steve Harvey, you are missing out. Get it for yourself for Mother's Day!
http://www.essence.com/news_entertainment/entertainment/articles/niecy_nash_talks_dating_and_being_a_single_mom?xid=050709-ENews-Thursday-neiceynash-mainstory-txtlink1
PS-And if you haven't already read this book, "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy and Committment" by Steve Harvey, you are missing out. Get it for yourself for Mother's Day!
Happy Mother's Day to me...
Wow, technology has definitely changed! I received this today from a friend of mine. I was in tears. I have had several conflicts with me being a single mother on my job, in my household, at the store (Get over here Jordan!) and several others. But, I still have all of my hair on my head. I did not pull it all out. I am still striving and you can, too.
If you don't ever get time to do something for yourself, at least send one of these to yourself and friends who are Mothers regardless of being single or not. We deserve it. I know I do (now I do).
http://news.cnnbcvideo.com/?nid=9NX_MowEfzOPkRe29noKbTQzMDg5Mzc-&referred_by=15507098-9sZyUFx&p=moveon
Thanks Anita!
If you don't ever get time to do something for yourself, at least send one of these to yourself and friends who are Mothers regardless of being single or not. We deserve it. I know I do (now I do).
http://news.cnnbcvideo.com/?nid=9NX_MowEfzOPkRe29noKbTQzMDg5Mzc-&referred_by=15507098-9sZyUFx&p=moveon
Thanks Anita!
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Do You Love to Read?
Reading is definitely fundamental. I have been reading since as long as I can remember. You should read to your children, I know I still do. Let them hear the expression coming from your voice, after all you are Mom!
Kids in grades 1-6 can earn a free book this summer from Barnes & Noble if they show that they have read 8 books! That is a good deal. And we all know that libraries are free... Also, download 9 free short stories at Barnes & Noble. These are a good deal for yourself to unwind and they're free, too!
Borders is offering a free cup of 12 oz. Seattle's Best coffee until Wednesday, May 6th at Borders Bookstores. Check their site for local listings and participation.
If you become an online book reviewer like me, you can earn free books that way, too! At EKG Literary Magazine, the pulse of the literary community, has a host of information on self-publishing, the entire writing process and best of all, book reviews. Thanks to the entire team for the opportunity!
And thanks to Freebies 4 Mom's blog who then in turn turned to Written Windows, they have a tremendous list that is updated on resources to get free books. Check out Fried Beef's Tech Best Places to Get Free Books-The Ultimate Guide. So glad I came across this site. Two of my favorites are on there, Paperback Swap and Book Mooch. You can't go wrong with these guys.
Happy Reading!
Kids in grades 1-6 can earn a free book this summer from Barnes & Noble if they show that they have read 8 books! That is a good deal. And we all know that libraries are free... Also, download 9 free short stories at Barnes & Noble. These are a good deal for yourself to unwind and they're free, too!
Borders is offering a free cup of 12 oz. Seattle's Best coffee until Wednesday, May 6th at Borders Bookstores. Check their site for local listings and participation.
If you become an online book reviewer like me, you can earn free books that way, too! At EKG Literary Magazine, the pulse of the literary community, has a host of information on self-publishing, the entire writing process and best of all, book reviews. Thanks to the entire team for the opportunity!
And thanks to Freebies 4 Mom's blog who then in turn turned to Written Windows, they have a tremendous list that is updated on resources to get free books. Check out Fried Beef's Tech Best Places to Get Free Books-The Ultimate Guide. So glad I came across this site. Two of my favorites are on there, Paperback Swap and Book Mooch. You can't go wrong with these guys.
Happy Reading!
Friday, May 1, 2009
Mother's Day is Approaching
Hallmark is truly the best...I received the following from a friend of mine, (thanks Marie!)
Mother's Day for single mothers.
Posted: 30 Apr 2009 12:12 PM PDT
There is something I'd like for you to do. Look around you, in your neighborhood, at work, somewhere in your life, and you will find a single mother. This mother will most likely not be getting a fancy meal out on May 10. This mother will most likely not be getting a bouquet of flowers, a piece of jewelry, or a box of chocolates. She may not even get a card.
So for me, send your nearest single mother a Mother's Day Card. It won't even cost you a penny. I know you've got your own loved ones covered, so maybe you could use the following for a mother who may not receive a Mother's Day Card from anyone else.
Visit Hallmark here, and they will send a Mother's Day card, a real paper card with an envelope and stamp and everything, from you, to a mother of your choice FREE OF CHARGE. But do it today or tomorrow (May 1) to make sure you make it postally by May 10.
Hallmark's website will walk you thru it:
1. Select a 5×7 card ($3.49)2. Personalize it3. Select “I want Hallmark to mail the card for me” (the first shipping option)4. Check out and enter the promo code CARD4MOM
You will not be asked to provide a credit card. The card and stamp are completely free. And a single mother near you will realize she is not alone. Thank you.
UPDATE: You can do this transaction two times and send out two cards: use promo code APRILCARD for the second one.
It works, I just sent one to someone I know. Try it out...Think about all of the mothers who will not receive anything. Especially the single mothers who work really hard, 365 days throughout the year!
And thanks to http://mommyswishlist.blogspot.com/ This site Rocks!
Mother's Day for single mothers.
Posted: 30 Apr 2009 12:12 PM PDT
There is something I'd like for you to do. Look around you, in your neighborhood, at work, somewhere in your life, and you will find a single mother. This mother will most likely not be getting a fancy meal out on May 10. This mother will most likely not be getting a bouquet of flowers, a piece of jewelry, or a box of chocolates. She may not even get a card.
So for me, send your nearest single mother a Mother's Day Card. It won't even cost you a penny. I know you've got your own loved ones covered, so maybe you could use the following for a mother who may not receive a Mother's Day Card from anyone else.
Visit Hallmark here, and they will send a Mother's Day card, a real paper card with an envelope and stamp and everything, from you, to a mother of your choice FREE OF CHARGE. But do it today or tomorrow (May 1) to make sure you make it postally by May 10.
Hallmark's website will walk you thru it:
1. Select a 5×7 card ($3.49)2. Personalize it3. Select “I want Hallmark to mail the card for me” (the first shipping option)4. Check out and enter the promo code CARD4MOM
You will not be asked to provide a credit card. The card and stamp are completely free. And a single mother near you will realize she is not alone. Thank you.
UPDATE: You can do this transaction two times and send out two cards: use promo code APRILCARD for the second one.
It works, I just sent one to someone I know. Try it out...Think about all of the mothers who will not receive anything. Especially the single mothers who work really hard, 365 days throughout the year!
And thanks to http://mommyswishlist.blogspot.com/ This site Rocks!
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
There's Still Time...
The other day, I mentioned that Baskin & Robbins is selling $0.31 scoops of ice cream! You can purchase up to 3 scoops per person. I took my children to the local B&R and the line was not long at all! When we came out it was getting there! There are other specials B&R have as well. Check out their site for Mother's Day specials: www.baskinrobbins.com
Tomorrow, April 3oth, Carvel Ice Cream Stores is celebrating their 75th Anniversary! Wow, that is something! To honor their loyal customers, they are offering a Free Iceberg. An Iceberg is a somewhat like an ice cream float. It is blended with soda, vanilla flavoring and soft serve ice cream.
I know children do not need all of this sugar (I know mine don't). But with all the uproars and worries about the economy, job loss, foreclosures and now most recently, swine flu, I think everyone deserves a treat. Give yourself a pat on the back for making it through to the end of the work week or if you're a SAHM (stay-at-home-mother), for taking care of the kids and house! We all deserve a break...
Tomorrow, April 3oth, Carvel Ice Cream Stores is celebrating their 75th Anniversary! Wow, that is something! To honor their loyal customers, they are offering a Free Iceberg. An Iceberg is a somewhat like an ice cream float. It is blended with soda, vanilla flavoring and soft serve ice cream.
I know children do not need all of this sugar (I know mine don't). But with all the uproars and worries about the economy, job loss, foreclosures and now most recently, swine flu, I think everyone deserves a treat. Give yourself a pat on the back for making it through to the end of the work week or if you're a SAHM (stay-at-home-mother), for taking care of the kids and house! We all deserve a break...
Monday, April 27, 2009
Deals for Today
Good morning everyone!
A heat wave has struck the East Coast and some parts of the Midwest and if you're a single mom like me, that means no cooking! I do not like to cook in the heat. The best foods to eat when it is hot like this are fruits, tuna salad, pasta salad, smoothies, and plenty of water!
I wanted to share two upcoming deals from fast food restaurants happening this week.
1st-Kentucky Fried Chicken is offering a free piece of their new Unfried Chicken! KFC has stepped outside of their box (or should I say bucket) and are serving grilled chicken! I think I may go try this out today. Check out their site or your local KFC for participation details.
2nd-On April 29th, from 5pm-10pm, Baskin and Robbins are offering one scoop of their ice cream for only 31 cents! Now that is a bargain! This is to raise money for local fire service organizations. But I must warn you, the lines are going to get long! Check your local B&R for participation as well.
So stay cool, wherever you are or warm if you're experiencing cooler temps!
A heat wave has struck the East Coast and some parts of the Midwest and if you're a single mom like me, that means no cooking! I do not like to cook in the heat. The best foods to eat when it is hot like this are fruits, tuna salad, pasta salad, smoothies, and plenty of water!
I wanted to share two upcoming deals from fast food restaurants happening this week.
1st-Kentucky Fried Chicken is offering a free piece of their new Unfried Chicken! KFC has stepped outside of their box (or should I say bucket) and are serving grilled chicken! I think I may go try this out today. Check out their site or your local KFC for participation details.
2nd-On April 29th, from 5pm-10pm, Baskin and Robbins are offering one scoop of their ice cream for only 31 cents! Now that is a bargain! This is to raise money for local fire service organizations. But I must warn you, the lines are going to get long! Check your local B&R for participation as well.
So stay cool, wherever you are or warm if you're experiencing cooler temps!
Sunday, April 26, 2009
Why don’t we go out anymore?
My ten-year old son asked me this question the other night en route to picking up my thirteen year old son from his all day school trip to Philadelphia. I had to talk to him in a kid friendly way without bringing up the real reason why we don’t "go out" anymore.
I love the fact that DC has a slew of museums to visit, most of them free. The vendors in the downtown area sell all sorts of souvenirs, including the huge wave of “Yes We Can” items courtesy of our President, Barack Obama. I used to take my children to these places quite often, the weather really disturbing our weekend visits. However, things have changed.
Motherly instinct, especially for single mothers, has to be used in such a way that we do not scare our children. My fear of the recent events of suicides over the turmoil of the economy has led me to sort of “stay inside” for a while. I am not a psychic here, but if I can avoid some kind of danger, then so be it. But it’s only temporary.
As single mothers, we have to salvage and save every dime. It is hard work. The economy these days does not make it any easier for us or anyone, to forget that there are such issues at hand. I believe as mothers, particularly single mothers, you need to tone it down a notch. By that I mean:
-Stop watching the news with your children when you hear about tragedies that have occurred due to the turmoil of the economy. Explain to them what is going on and why we must still be aware without being overly paranoid.
-Look for warning signs in your children in terms of depression, if you suspect a change. They could either be not eating, getting out of bed, not smiling, chatting on the phone with their friends. Simply not wanting to do the normal things they would normally do.
-If you are in debt, you do not need to let your children know this. They are kids and need to learn about money, but you shouldn’t broadcast the fact that money is hindering the family. Perhaps going over bills and budgeting after the children are asleep is best.
-Let your children know that there is a better way and things are only temporary. Assure them by eliminating that extra video game per month to a bi- monthly rental instead or perhaps get your children involved in other activities. Volunteering is a great way to start. Libraries are free.
-Last but not least, let your children know the consequences if they seek other measures of getting money. We still need to teach our children the value of a dollar and the value of life. And freedom.
Single mothers should take it easy on themselves if they cannot afford a certain brand of shoes, entertainment, clothing, or that concert ticket for their budding teenager. It is not the end of the world. There will be other times to get these things. I have to cool it myself when I take my children places and not overspend. Emotional spending is the worse kind, it is a hole that can sometimes take a year to get out of. It is best to keep your emotions about money in check.
I answered my son simply by letting him know that we do go out, it is just in our neighborhood instead of me driving eleven miles into DC so I can save gas. I also let him know that things happen everywhere and we are not always safe from it, but in these times, you never know. He understood that we can have fun right in our own backyard. And he also understood that things can happen anywhere and we have to be aware of our surroundings at all times.
After we had our talk, he didn’t ponder anymore; was just happy to see his brother come back safely from his trip to Philadelphia. And I am proud to say that my son spent half of his spending money, explaining that the sights were more glorious than spending money...
I love the fact that DC has a slew of museums to visit, most of them free. The vendors in the downtown area sell all sorts of souvenirs, including the huge wave of “Yes We Can” items courtesy of our President, Barack Obama. I used to take my children to these places quite often, the weather really disturbing our weekend visits. However, things have changed.
Motherly instinct, especially for single mothers, has to be used in such a way that we do not scare our children. My fear of the recent events of suicides over the turmoil of the economy has led me to sort of “stay inside” for a while. I am not a psychic here, but if I can avoid some kind of danger, then so be it. But it’s only temporary.
As single mothers, we have to salvage and save every dime. It is hard work. The economy these days does not make it any easier for us or anyone, to forget that there are such issues at hand. I believe as mothers, particularly single mothers, you need to tone it down a notch. By that I mean:
-Stop watching the news with your children when you hear about tragedies that have occurred due to the turmoil of the economy. Explain to them what is going on and why we must still be aware without being overly paranoid.
-Look for warning signs in your children in terms of depression, if you suspect a change. They could either be not eating, getting out of bed, not smiling, chatting on the phone with their friends. Simply not wanting to do the normal things they would normally do.
-If you are in debt, you do not need to let your children know this. They are kids and need to learn about money, but you shouldn’t broadcast the fact that money is hindering the family. Perhaps going over bills and budgeting after the children are asleep is best.
-Let your children know that there is a better way and things are only temporary. Assure them by eliminating that extra video game per month to a bi- monthly rental instead or perhaps get your children involved in other activities. Volunteering is a great way to start. Libraries are free.
-Last but not least, let your children know the consequences if they seek other measures of getting money. We still need to teach our children the value of a dollar and the value of life. And freedom.
Single mothers should take it easy on themselves if they cannot afford a certain brand of shoes, entertainment, clothing, or that concert ticket for their budding teenager. It is not the end of the world. There will be other times to get these things. I have to cool it myself when I take my children places and not overspend. Emotional spending is the worse kind, it is a hole that can sometimes take a year to get out of. It is best to keep your emotions about money in check.
I answered my son simply by letting him know that we do go out, it is just in our neighborhood instead of me driving eleven miles into DC so I can save gas. I also let him know that things happen everywhere and we are not always safe from it, but in these times, you never know. He understood that we can have fun right in our own backyard. And he also understood that things can happen anywhere and we have to be aware of our surroundings at all times.
After we had our talk, he didn’t ponder anymore; was just happy to see his brother come back safely from his trip to Philadelphia. And I am proud to say that my son spent half of his spending money, explaining that the sights were more glorious than spending money...
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Happy Tax Day!
In honor of Tax Day, the deadline for people to file their taxes, Maggie Moo's Ice Cream Shop is giving away free scoops of ice cream today, April 15th! Visit their site at: www.maggiemoos.com for more details!
Also honoring Tax Day is Cinnabon! Starting at 5pm-8pm, Cinnabon is giving away free Cinnabon Bites!
How about that? Single moms, get those taxes done so you will NOT get penalized. Don't forget to ask about the Earned Income Tax Credit, claim your childcare expenses, summer camp included and include all expenses if you are a single mother with her own business!
Happy Tax Day everyone!
Also honoring Tax Day is Cinnabon! Starting at 5pm-8pm, Cinnabon is giving away free Cinnabon Bites!
How about that? Single moms, get those taxes done so you will NOT get penalized. Don't forget to ask about the Earned Income Tax Credit, claim your childcare expenses, summer camp included and include all expenses if you are a single mother with her own business!
Happy Tax Day everyone!
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
How Old Is Too Old To Participate in Easter Activities?
I have lived in the DC area for several years and around springtime, I always have one heck of a pity party because I have never been able to get tickets for the White House Easter Egg Roll. In prior years, we witnessed lines for days only to get turned around and my youngest son asking me, "But why?" This year, the tickets were given away online and although I couldn't see the long line in cyberspace, I still couldn't get through. My son, who is ten (the oldest wanted to attend just to see the Obamas), was upset that I couldn't get the tickets. Again.
"This may be my last year to celebrate Easter," he said to me when I came home from work that evening.
"Why? You're only ten, next year you can get tickets," I answered, scrambling to fix dinner at the same time.
"Mom, you know the website said for 'kids up to age ten only'," he explained. He walked away.
It finally hit me. My kids are growing up! Hooray! Oh, sorry, was having a moment there. I did feel a little guilty about not getting those tickets again, but, I did take him to an event to celebrate Easter activities for kids.
The National Zoo, home of the Panda in the historic Woodley Park in Washington DC, had a wonderful event for us to attend. The zoo is not far from my job, so it was easy to get to, being Metro accessible and all. I took him to the Annual Easter Monday: Celebrating the African-American Family event. Glad I went early!
The event started at 10:00am. Sponsored by radio station WHUR 96.3 FM, my son participated in an Easter egg hunt where he and a bunch of other age eleven and under kids were scrambling for wooden eggs. At the end of let's say, five minutes, they had to go to a table and trade in their eggs for prizes. My son picked out a soccer ball keychain to match his soccer ball themed basket.
He played games such as beanbag toss in the meerkat's mouth, ring toss on the flamingo's beak, and Frisbee toss in another kind of mammal's mouth (sorry, I don't remember). There was a man dressed up as the zoo's traditional panda, sitting and waving inside of an Easter egg shaped bubble. People snapped pictures, even yours truly.
Watching my son act a little shy when it came time to create a crafty bag so he could receive candy gave me the uh-oh chills. I thought, "He just might be growing out of this." But then when I glanced around the table spread with glues, pictures, festive decals and markers, I realized there were a host of parents with toddlers and kindergartners providing assistance with their bags. My son did make a bag after I explained to him that he wouldn't receive candy if he didn't. I even helped by writing his name in 80's graffiti style!
The Hoola-Hoop contest he did not participate in, although I did see boys wanting to win the prize. I looked over at my son who shook his head, "No way Mom." Okay, maybe five years ago he would have won this competition.
After exhausting the events and noticing a semi-large crowd, we decided to leave. What was priceless about this outing was hearing my son say, "Mom, I can't wait to come back next year."
I smiled as I snapped a picture of him standing proudly near the sign that read, "Easter Monday: Celebrating the African-American Family."
Perhaps we are all never too old to participate in Easter activities.
"This may be my last year to celebrate Easter," he said to me when I came home from work that evening.
"Why? You're only ten, next year you can get tickets," I answered, scrambling to fix dinner at the same time.
"Mom, you know the website said for 'kids up to age ten only'," he explained. He walked away.
It finally hit me. My kids are growing up! Hooray! Oh, sorry, was having a moment there. I did feel a little guilty about not getting those tickets again, but, I did take him to an event to celebrate Easter activities for kids.
The National Zoo, home of the Panda in the historic Woodley Park in Washington DC, had a wonderful event for us to attend. The zoo is not far from my job, so it was easy to get to, being Metro accessible and all. I took him to the Annual Easter Monday: Celebrating the African-American Family event. Glad I went early!
The event started at 10:00am. Sponsored by radio station WHUR 96.3 FM, my son participated in an Easter egg hunt where he and a bunch of other age eleven and under kids were scrambling for wooden eggs. At the end of let's say, five minutes, they had to go to a table and trade in their eggs for prizes. My son picked out a soccer ball keychain to match his soccer ball themed basket.
He played games such as beanbag toss in the meerkat's mouth, ring toss on the flamingo's beak, and Frisbee toss in another kind of mammal's mouth (sorry, I don't remember). There was a man dressed up as the zoo's traditional panda, sitting and waving inside of an Easter egg shaped bubble. People snapped pictures, even yours truly.
Watching my son act a little shy when it came time to create a crafty bag so he could receive candy gave me the uh-oh chills. I thought, "He just might be growing out of this." But then when I glanced around the table spread with glues, pictures, festive decals and markers, I realized there were a host of parents with toddlers and kindergartners providing assistance with their bags. My son did make a bag after I explained to him that he wouldn't receive candy if he didn't. I even helped by writing his name in 80's graffiti style!
The Hoola-Hoop contest he did not participate in, although I did see boys wanting to win the prize. I looked over at my son who shook his head, "No way Mom." Okay, maybe five years ago he would have won this competition.
After exhausting the events and noticing a semi-large crowd, we decided to leave. What was priceless about this outing was hearing my son say, "Mom, I can't wait to come back next year."
I smiled as I snapped a picture of him standing proudly near the sign that read, "Easter Monday: Celebrating the African-American Family."
Perhaps we are all never too old to participate in Easter activities.
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Welcome to Sheography!
Welcome to Sheography! I created this blog with the single mother in mind. As a single mother, I do everything. I have to find the time to do everything! And at one point in time, I used to beat myself up when I couldn't get everything done in a day such as wake my kids up in the morning, feed them breakfast, take them to school, not yell at them or pull out my hair because I was always asked, "But why Mommy?" on the way to daycare/school (they're three years apart), go to work, pray that I do not receive a "Come get your son" phone call, although I never received too many of them, thank God. Let's see, oh yes, then I had to come home, prepare dinner or warm up leftovers, help with homework, ask about their day, say "Stop" a gazillion times, bathe them, then read or watch TV with them before kindly tucking them to bed. All of this before 7:30pm.
At that time, I literally thought I was going to lose my hair. But thank God, I haven't. It is all there, and now my ten-year old has taken things back to my year of birth era by growing an Afro. Literally...
Ladies (and sometimes Gents), I want to say that life does not have to stop. I had to learn this the hard way. I was a functioning Mom, never going out to have fun, feeling frumpy at times because I had gained weight in places I didn't know existed, and found myself carrying a Tote bag versus my cute leather bags that I always shopped for in NYC. Yes, motherhood can be a shell shocker for some, however, it is double the work for those that are single. I have two children and in the next decade, they will be grown men, hopefully, prayerfully not still calling my name 50 million times a day, like they do now!
So I dedicate Sheography, my own creative name for the single mother who does it all. For the single mother who loses her faith one minute and restores it the next when she sees her toddler take his/her first step. For all the single mothers who does not know how they are going to feed their children one week, but somehow they miraculously find out about Sheography and see that I have listed resources for women to go to food pantries for free or low-cost perishables and produce.
Last but not least, I NEED to display, portray and put on blast, all of the single mothers who actually made it with little or no support. I have read about and heard countless success stories of single mothers who either stepped out on faith and went for their dream, be it starting a business or non-profit organization, working in the entertainment field, writing a book or starting a blog and/or website dedicated to single mothers just like this one.
Welcome to Sheography. There is more to come!
And a special thanks to the following sites:
At that time, I literally thought I was going to lose my hair. But thank God, I haven't. It is all there, and now my ten-year old has taken things back to my year of birth era by growing an Afro. Literally...
Ladies (and sometimes Gents), I want to say that life does not have to stop. I had to learn this the hard way. I was a functioning Mom, never going out to have fun, feeling frumpy at times because I had gained weight in places I didn't know existed, and found myself carrying a Tote bag versus my cute leather bags that I always shopped for in NYC. Yes, motherhood can be a shell shocker for some, however, it is double the work for those that are single. I have two children and in the next decade, they will be grown men, hopefully, prayerfully not still calling my name 50 million times a day, like they do now!
So I dedicate Sheography, my own creative name for the single mother who does it all. For the single mother who loses her faith one minute and restores it the next when she sees her toddler take his/her first step. For all the single mothers who does not know how they are going to feed their children one week, but somehow they miraculously find out about Sheography and see that I have listed resources for women to go to food pantries for free or low-cost perishables and produce.
Last but not least, I NEED to display, portray and put on blast, all of the single mothers who actually made it with little or no support. I have read about and heard countless success stories of single mothers who either stepped out on faith and went for their dream, be it starting a business or non-profit organization, working in the entertainment field, writing a book or starting a blog and/or website dedicated to single mothers just like this one.
Welcome to Sheography. There is more to come!
And a special thanks to the following sites:
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